Aging in place

Most people want to stay in their own home. The hard part is the logistics: care, rides, a safer house, money, and a backup person. This page puts those pieces together.

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Help by your state · Emergency numbers

The 5-decision stay-home plan

Write names and numbers on the fridge sheet when you decide.

1. Care

Who helps with bathing, meals, medicine, or just checking in?

  • Family / neighbor schedule
  • Paid aide or home health
  • Adult day program
Find home care by ZIP

2. Transport

How do they get to the doctor, pharmacy, grocery, and church?

  • Family driver calendar
  • Senior ride / transit
  • VA travel if they’re a veteran
Rides & transportation

3. The house

Can they move through this home without a fall?

  • Bathroom and stairs first
  • Lighting and clutter
  • When a ramp or remodel is needed
Home-mod checklist

4. Money

What can Medicare, Medicaid, VA, or local programs pay for?

  • Medicare home health (when ordered)
  • Medicaid waiver / in-home help
  • Utility and food help
Benefits

5. Backup person

Who gets the 2 a.m. call? Who has extra keys?

  • One primary + one backup
  • Doctor, pharmacy, and med list
  • Print the fridge sheet
Print fridge sheet

Home modification checklist

Check what is already done. Start with bathroom and stairs — that is where most falls happen.

Bathroom

Stairs, floors & lighting

Getting in and around

Kitchen & daily living

Fall prevention Housing options

Some Medicare Advantage, Medicaid waiver, VA, and local aging offices help pay for grab bars and ramps. Ask 1-800-677-1116 or your state page.

Rides + appointments (pair them)

Before the visit

  • Write the date, time, doctor, and address
  • Book the ride the same day you book the appointment
  • List medications to bring
  • Plan extra time for parking and walking

Who can drive

  • Family calendar (same person each week if possible)
  • Senior center or Area Agency on Aging rides
  • Medicaid or Medicare Advantage ride benefit
  • GoGoGrandparent or similar if they don’t use an app
  • VA travel for veterans
Open rides page

After the visit

  • New medicines? Update the fridge list
  • Follow-up date — book the next ride now
  • Home care order? Start at the ZIP finder
  • Need food or pharmacy delivery that week?
Medications

Care that comes to the house

Home health (skilled)

Nurse, therapist, or aide after a doctor order — often Medicare-covered for a limited time.

Search by ZIP

Personal care / companion

Bathing, dressing, meals, laundry, company. Usually private pay or Medicaid waiver — not regular Medicare.

State aging office

Meals, meds, groceries

Meals on Wheels, pantry, pharmacy delivery, grocery drop-off so they don’t have to drive.

Food & delivery

Safety check

Medical alert, neighbor check-in, or a local security company if that gives the family peace of mind.

Emergency setup

Who to call

Local aging help

1-800-677-1116

Eldercare Locator — they connect you to the Area Agency on Aging for your ZIP.

211

Dial 211

Rides, food, utility help, and caregiver programs in your county.

Medicare

1-800-633-4227

Home health coverage questions and official plan help.

Adult Protective Services

If you worry about neglect, exploitation, or someone unsafe at home. Find the number on your state page.

For the family doing the coordinating

Share the load

One person as “quarterback,” others take rides, meals, or Sunday check-ins. Write it down so it isn’t all in someone’s head.

Caregiver page

Talk about the house

If the home can’t be made safe, look at one-floor living, a family move-in, or senior housing — before a crisis forces it.

Housing

Ask for extra help

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