Grandparents raising grandchildren
This is caregiving and parenting at the same time. You are not invisible. Start with food, school, legal papers, and one person who can spell you.
Grandfamilies & Kinship Support Network: gksnetwork.org · 211 for local kinship navigators
First practical doors
Food and cash help
Ask about SNAP and TANF even if income is modest. Benefits often go back to the application date. Dial 211 or your county job & family services.
School
Bring proof of address and any custody or caregiver affidavit the district accepts. Ask the school counselor about free lunch and transportation.
Legal standing
A written caregiver affidavit, custody, or guardianship may be needed for doctors and school. Legal aid can explain options in your state — this is not legal advice.
Legal planningTaxes
If the child lives with you and you provide support, you may qualify for the Child Tax Credit. Free help: AARP Foundation Tax-Aide.
AARP Tax-AideYour rest
Kinship programs sometimes have respite vouchers. You cannot pour from an empty cup — ask early, not after you break.
National support
Brookdale Foundation Relatives as Parents and Generations United publish state contacts.
Generations United